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女儿趣事
2015-04-22 02:03:20 作者:王华南 点击数:2080

女儿趣事一

南山子

女儿快八岁了,说出的话已然不简单。最让人吃惊的是今天中午,因为小学搞个午习加班,学生都得二点前到校自习一节才上下午课。老师是无私地奉献,但孩子和家长却疲于奔命。上午十二点多才回到家,午饭午休时间便紧又紧。总是睡眠不足地赶,让做家长的我也很有些不满。骑车送女儿上学路上,看着她伏在背上昏睡的危险状,便跟女儿商量,向老师请假,申请不参加午习。哪知女儿语出惊人,说出了一番老于世故的话,令你不敢相信是出自一个不足八岁的女孩之口。

“唉,没用的,老爸。我们都改变不了什么。全校学生都这样,我们不去参加,老师会想出其他办法来加我们作业的。”

我听了,一时缄默。是啊,一人对抗会有什么后果呢?我不敢想像。只是很奇怪女儿“改变”这词用得那么好,就差没说出“现实如此,”“做人艰难了”。

联系起来才四五岁便追爱情电视剧的她,我很是有些惊讶女儿的早熟。以前他哥哥也是才五六岁便对流行的爱情剧或武侠剧、电影电视都烂熟,连演员也记得清楚,如今他二个又对日本动画剧场十分着迷。女儿还跟她妈妈一样,追着看宫庭剧《宫锁珠帘》、《太平公主秘史》、《美人天下》等,对复杂的男女爱恨情仇了然于心。又还能跟你一样喜欢看《神枪手》之类的战争片、间谍剧,而且是真的看懂入迷那种,连吃饭也忘记,累得我们总是要在餐间剧场时间,一回又一回责骂训斥她,而她还真是津津有味,乐此不疲,女儿真的是文学熏陶较多,且兴趣广泛啊。

独享剧场,女儿能消磨一天。但不能说她爱孤独,她在不同的环境里,她总会找到几个伙伴朋友,玩游戏,扮剧情,有模有样。大前天楼上娜娜下来玩,她俩在演皇后与宫女,对话时时飘出房间:

“本宫累了,替本宫更衣。”女儿在发号施令。

“是”, 娜娜的回应也还真低微轻柔。

“大胆奴婢,还不赶快出来。”女儿又发怒训话了。

“奴婢知罪,这就出去。”娜娜赶紧小声陪罪。

  "皇后娘娘息怒,”女儿小声地教娜娜。

“皇后娘娘请息怒。” 娜娜重复地学习......

两人很有些天份地在女儿的闰房里排练,客厅的我听到,暗自发笑。一会儿,见她披着那件蓝色的婴儿包被出来,慢步移驾的样子,后面跟着个低眉叉手的娜娜,觉得这“皇后”还真的有几分威仪。

“传我的话,都散了吧。”女儿又作指示。 

娜娜赶紧传达:“皇后娘娘有旨,众人去玩吧。”

“去玩罗,”被子一甩一丢,女儿一下子打回原形,商量着要出去玩了。

女儿淘气贪玩,这好象是孩子的天性,但有时候让我们生气,你努力地教她规定,要认真,但一转身她就跟你笑嘻嘻。虽然她主动承诺每天一幅画一个毛笔字,每周都能补回来完成,近二年了,没有遗漏,但她要玩时,却很会找理由钻空子应付交差,全没学会严肃认真,精益求精,所以,才气真的不知在哪里,当然比她的老爸老妈那年岁就好过千百倍了。

都说女儿是父母的开心果,夹心袄,我家的欣欣也重感情很贴心。每次放学回来,总要在门外大叫大唱,然后你打开门时,就得到处去找,藏得简单,找也容易,二年了,却乐此不疲。接着你笑闹着提醒:回家要叫人:“你是谁啊?来干什么的。”她答你:“爸爸.”

“你是爸爸”?"

"哈哈,对,我就是爸爸,你是王鹤欣 ....."

女儿爱表扬,爱看见她爱人的笑,昨天老师布置手工:环保小制作,要跟家人一起做。她告诉爸妈:“我们一定要做一个最有创意,最美丽的作品。一定要让美术老师笑一笑,我好喜欢看到美术老师笑。”

我好奇地问,“你们美术老师是男的还是女的?”

 “当然是女的。”

“漂亮吗?”

“笑起来可漂亮呢!”女儿夸张的说。于是她妈费尽心机跟她选了一晚,最后制出个特别的花瓶来,我还献了二支真的花,一个红玫瑰,一个虞美人,结果老师笑了,女儿蹦蹦跳跳地回家乐翻了天。

大概是因为好动活泼吧,老师总是安排男生跟她座,偏偏她又很正直大胆的样子,总爱检举违纪的男生,结果常跟男孩子打斗。昨天她又告诉我:“邓子郧又欺负我。”我问她怎么欺负你她,她说他用橡皮擦扔她,我说你一定惹了他吧,她说:“他上课吃东西还给别人吃,又讲话,我已经是忍无可忍了。”我说你又不是班长,他不受你管,况且你昨天还因跟他讲话被老师罚站啊。"

她说:"我今天是组长呢!我已经忍了她三次了.昨天是他跟我说话,连累我挨批评的好不好!"

我一时语赛,好一阵我才说:“你要管别人,一定要自己表现好,做班干才行,不然别人不服人,背后会讨厌你的。”

女儿想了好一阵才答:“你说得似乎有点在理,但我有很多朋友,而且,我不准他们欺负美术老师。"

到这份上,我无话可说了,也许,这就是个性,想到她时不时得到红花和奖品就高兴无比的样,我也就让定她不做十全十美的优秀生了,毕竟,她是入学最小。提前六个月入学的啊。

上小学后,女儿在抽条换牙,好象没以前漂亮了,却还秀气可爱。有一次我问她:

"女儿,你之前白亮又美丽,现在好像变丑了,怎么办?"

你想不到她怎么反应.她歪着头, 用不大的眼睛瞪着我:

“还好意思说?都遗传到你那大牙齿和一大一小的眼睛了。”样子好象委屈又不平。

“一点没像到我妈妈,唉——”女儿又老气横状地补充一句。

我晕,至于吗?我的相貌也算是很对得起观众的嘛,真是比窦娥还冤啊。”

女儿确实也很顽皮。主见很大,个性特别强。下午放学时,约好校门口左边阅读角等,她却一再违诺。有一次,她放学后跟隔壁班的女同学到生物园去玩,一玩就到六点多。久等不出,四处找也不见,便不停地打电话。急到班主任也从开会中出来,急到她妈妈也放弃学车匆匆赶回。就在班主任不顾会影响教师开会,要去放广播的时候,女儿跟一个小女生正从校园的一角慢慢走出来了。背着沉重的书包,抓着清油的野草,说笑着走出来。

我一见,焦虑化成怒火,过去大声喝问:

“到哪里去了?”

几乎想要捧她的了,她却若无其事地答:

“我们在生物园除草。”

气得我气不打一处出。大庭广众之下,又不好发作。老师一旁批评教育,她立即很乖样:“我知错了,下回不敢了。”老师见她态度很好,批评几句就走了。但我气没消,女儿却故作轻松地叫:

“老爸,我知错了,走吧?”

“你还想怎么样呢?”一边啊,眼睛乱转,若无其事;一边不忘跟小朋友挥手作别。

看着她不知轻重的样子,我强忍着载她回家,一言不发地想着怎么收拾她。她却象心情特别好,不停地介绍她今天新交一个好朋友,送她什么;一起去玩,怎么有趣;说她下午上课,语文老师怎么表扬了她;还奖了支笔,书上又贴了红花。我的气慢慢消了许多,但还是不假辞色地责问:

“今天不遵守规定,害得我白等一个多小时,还让你妈妈学不成车,班主任老师开不好会,你说该怎么处罚你呢?”

当时已到家的楼下,女儿边下车边拿书包,头也不抬地说:

“挨揍呗,罚跪呗。”样子是一点也不担心。

失败啊,这可是最严厉、最高级家法了,她竟一点也不害怕?等电梯到坐电梯时间,大概是看到阴沉着脸吧,女儿撒娇地靠过来,牵着我的衣角,有些可怜的样子望着我说:

“要不我多画二十幅画,行不?”

“三十幅,好了吧?”见我不理地开门进屋,她便放好书包,自觉地到厨房跪了。

自然是一场暴风雨式的痛责重抽,女儿流下了痛苦、害怕的泪水,不敢大哭,直到遇赦,摸摸伤痛处,做作业去了。

无声地做好饭菜,她妈妈回来了。女儿出来哭泣,却不敢象以前那样撒娇投诉。作业做好了,一家吃饭、看电影。她早已雨过天晴,仿佛是昨天发生的事了。妈妈再问她是否记住教训了时,她迅速地不耐烦地答道:“知道了,啰嗦!”象是十分忙的样子。我们看着,相视苦笑,却不敢笑出声。

女儿挨揍已是第三次了。第一次是去年老师投诉,她二次拿同学的玩具回家,还说是送的。第二次是放学时耍泼要买零食跟妈妈闹。前二次重责都悔改了,没有重犯。这次是否有效呢?总有些担心。因为我们是多么不愿意使用这最无奈、最低级的教法啊。只怕当时她的皮痛,比不过我们的心痛啊。

应该这是最后一次了。

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